I have two sisters who live abroad and whenever one or both of them come to Trinidad, especially if they come for Christmas, we would plan to spend a few days in Tobago as a family. In recent years, it seems like Tobago has become more and more popular as a Christmas getaway for families from Trinidad, so it is difficult to get flights and accommodation, and there are more people on the beaches. When we my sister and her family planned to come home for Christmas last year, we decided to do something different and stay in a guesthouse in Blanchisseuse instead.
With a backyard pool and view of the sea it was the perfect vacation spot |
We began our journey on Christmas Eve, stopping off in Maracas on the way for bake and shark. The cousins played in the sand and got their toes wet on the shore. By the time we got to the guest house and unpacked they were ready to jump into the pool, where they stayed until dinner time. I don't have data on my phone and the wi-fi was not working properly, so I decided to use the opportunity to disconnect from the virtual world and focus on spending time with my family who were there with me. After the cousins went to bed, the Mummies wrapped Christmas presents while I entertained myself testing my brother-in-law's knowledge of Trini words and sayings. It was hilarious seeing his reaction when he realized that 'goat mout' had nothing to do with the mouth of a goat!
View from my bedroom window |
The cousins arose bright and early on Christmas morning. My nephew was incredulous when he asked me where was the Christmas tree and I told him there was none LOL. We had devotions with them then we indulged in a luscious Trini Christmas breakfast complete with pastelles and ham and chow chow. The cousins opened their presents and played with them until it was time to go to the beach. We went first to the Spring Bridge, then settled at Marianne beach where the river entered the sea. We had a ball being slammed by the waves in the sea, and then plunging in the freezing cold river. The cousins thoroughly enjoyed catching tadpoles in the river and placing them in the aquarium they had made. When we returned home, they went straight into the pool until it was time for dinner. It was a wonderful water-filled day.
Devotions in the pool |
Getting ready for the waves |
Making sure the tadpoles don't escape |
On Boxing Day we went on a hike to Avcoa waterfall. It took a bit longer with the children, especially when the path along the river was steep or we had to cross the river, but when we arrived it was all worth it. We had the waterfall all to ourselves and it was so peaceful being able to absorb the wonder of God's creation. When we returned to base, our gracious hosts provided us with a delicious lunch of dhal and rice and bhagi and the best curry chicken that my brother-in-law has ever tasted. We ended the day with more pool time until it got dark.
Green and serene |
So happy to have had two of my siblings along for the adventure (missed you Kathy!) |
The last day was my niece's 8th birthday. She began her day opening birthday presents, and we headed to the pool after breakfast until it was time to pack up. On the way back home, we planned to stop off at Las Cuevas beach for a quick dip, but when we got there the car park was full and overflowing so we decided to head to Maracas beach instead. Just before we got there, my brother turned off at Tyrico Bay and asked me what I thought. The water looked calm and there were not a lot of people so we decided to stay there instead. That decision could have meant the difference between life and death for a family we had never met.
Getting ready to head into the water |
Two of the cousins came into the water with four of the adults, while the other two played in the sand. It was mostly calm but every so often a wave would come that would lift us off our feet and put us back down. After a while, my brother took my nephew out to join his cousins on the sand, and my niece decided the waves were too rough so she went out. Shortly after, I heard a voice behind me saying "Mama! Go in!" When I turned there was a lady who was clearly not touching the bottom, and three others (her children) who were further out. I asked if she needed help and she didn't answer but by the look on her face she clearly did so I grabbed her hand and started swimming with her to shore. She kept saying, "My children! My children!" but my brother had gone to help them so I kept assuring her that they would be okay. My sister went to get help but there was nothing that anyone on the shore could have done.
Thankful to God that all the children were safe on shore so we could have helped the family in distress |
While I was swimming, I just kept praying that the lady I was helping would not start to panic because then I would have had to leave her. It took us a while to get to shore but God gave me the strength and we made it. It was only when I sat on the shore trying to catch my breath that it fully registered that we had been caught in a current. Meanwhile my brother had advised the lady's children to float on their backs and thank God they eventually drifted out of the current and were able to ride the waves to come back to shore. The family expressed their gratitude for what we had done for them, as they realized that what started off as a fun day on the beach could have ended very differently for them. I used the opportunity to share with them how I felt it was God who directed us to be on that beach at that time to help them, and also to share the gospel with them. I pray that the experience would cause them to surrender their lives to Jesus so whenever they do lose their earthly lives, they would be able to live eternally with God.
Our family vacation could easily have ended very differently... but God! |
Every morning when I have my devotions, I write one item of praise, and one item of prayer. Every day of our vacation, my prayer item was for safety: safety on the journey to Blanchisseuse, safety on the beach, safety on the hike, and safety on the journey home. God faithfully answered everyone of those prayers, and for that I am eternally grateful. I am also grateful for our parents, who never learnt how to swim themselves, but recognized the value of this skill so they ensured that we all learnt it at an early age. I do not know what lies ahead for our family in 2025, but I know that once we remain in tune with the leading of the Holy Spirit, we can rely on His faithfulness to see us through.
Enjoying our Christmas dinner |